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Do the words love and change go together

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Article - (24 December 2008) 3 Comments - (Newest, 3 January 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, fealow writes:

i have always wonderd to myself if it is reasonable to change who you are, what you do or how you think for someone you love if things between you seem difficult. so i was decided to post this article to get some opinions from everyone.

so do you agree that it is the right thing to do if you love someone or disagree... adn theres always a middle ground in a debate/ discussion so remember to back your opinions up with your own thoughts and ideas on the subject.

(all opinoins wlecome!!!)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009):

I'd rather be left behind than not be myself.

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A female reader, cHARR United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2008):

I think you should love who you are. Not just the looks, Personality, Job, education, every tiny little thing. You should never change for anyone, especialy not to make them like you.

Then if the person you're willing to give your love to loves you for that same reason. Then you will no doubt have a happy relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008):

What a question! No. I dont think its rite coz if you do your basically bending your personality to fit someones ideal image which is'nt rite when its not who you are.

People should be able to accept YOU for YOU! For who you are not who your "pretending" to be.

But thats just my opinion.

All the best xx :)

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