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*awaii08
writes:I've been chatting with this guy (I'm also a guy) through yahoo and SMS for 5 days now and I must say that it's love at first sight..he's my ideal man..where both bi guys and both not out to anyone and never will.. I haven't met him yet but plannin to see each other next week even though were just 5km away from each other. I'm madly in love with him and he also said really like me alot to.The thing is, he said to me awhile ago that were completly different from each other.. He said he also go to partys 5 nights a week, loads of friend who are always drank, who smokes and use drugs.. On the other side I'm a very (I must say very) good boy who never smoke and but drink socialy.. I answered back I don't care...Do opposite really attracts? Will it work for us?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 Well its up to him but drugs are a sign of a weak spirited person. People usually resort to drugs because deep inside there is something not making that person happy or fulfilled in life, could be many things. You will need to talk to him and see... The thing is he might not even know himself, which is why he's taking drugs, trying to make himself feel better all the time.
If he's as young as yourself he's going to come to the cross roads soon and it'l be the point of no return for what ever path he takes.
1) The path of doom/addiction. (take the drugs)
2) The path of success/self satisfaction. (quit drugs)
It's good that your helping him thats a good friend and partner.
He'll probably try to play the "your uncool because you don't take drugs" game because he's insecure about the whole thing. Drugs are illegal because there are things about them we don't fully understand and have effects on our brains that could do permanent harm regardless of the drugo talk at drug parties etc.
Well you notice how most drugo are no hopers and have basic lives and don't really do much? Well that's one side effect, life simply passes them by.
Cheers.
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reader, kawaii08 +, writes (29 December 2008):
kawaii08 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm also a bit concern about his health.. I'm fine with cigars nd alcohol but said he does use DRUGS.. How do I stop him from using them?
Thnkx
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reader, Griffo +, writes (29 December 2008):
Yes they do. here's an experiment I give all people who ask this question its fun and can be helpfull. It will give you an idea if the type of person your after.
1) Get an A4 sheet of paper and draw a zigerty-zag line through the center from one side to the other.
2) On one half of the sheet put your name.
3) Now look at it as if its a graph, and place your name so its facing you. Then on all the high points of the graph put all the good qualities about you and on all the low points put all your bad qualities.
4) Cut the paper out following the zigerty-zag line.
Now take a good look at your half of the sheet with your name on it. it should display all your low points all these are what your opposite should have as their good quality points thus making you both a complete couple.
Now look at the other sheet. this sheet is what you ideal partner would have as good and bad qualities. Notice how that persons bad qualities are your good qualities...? The very opposite if what you are.
Put the two sheets together again and you have found your ultimate partnership.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): hi I was just thinking the other day that i would really like to get talking 2 someone i have never met before so i have to say fair play 2 you on that one. But about this guy i think maybe he might not be the best for you because you sound really nice...but he is into drugs and sounds 2 much like a party boy and he might not be the best person for you. sorry if thats not what you wanted to here but in this case i dont think opposites dont attract!
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