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Do I want to stop loving her?

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Question - (9 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

For the past year i've been 'in love' with my female P.E! ive never been in love with members of the same sex before. i feel all funny when she talks to me, looks me in the eye or smiles at me. when i think of her my heart feels really weird and when i think of her smiling i smile to. she recently got engaged and when i got home from school i was in tears. when i think thatnothing can happen to us i cry. I'm really confused about my feelings and you're the first person i've told. im not sure if i want to stop loving her or not.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008):

Hi

I hope i can really help you I have been in that situation before.

I acted on my feelings and it is the biggest regret of my life!

My teacher made it clear she felt the same way yet I acted on it, we kissed but from then I got into trouble because me been a stupid child wouldn’t leave her alone thinking she was interested. She was interested but it was wrong and we both agreed on this. She would cry and I got in to trouble for been too close to her.

This lead to me never been able to talk to her again and therefore we still have the 30 second long stare but nothing can ever come from this. However she has now got married and I am so happy for her. I still care for her obviously but I would advise you never to make any contact of this manner because look at my example and you may never be able to be taught by her again. So enjoy your thoughts but make sure they only stay as thoughts.

For me it never has disappeared this little so called crush n I have never fancied another member of the same sex and I am really into boys!

But with her I have never felt about a hot boy like I have about her… but u cant have everything!

Good Luck but dont keep it all inside, try and write it down.

xxx

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