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writes: hey. Me and this girl have recently been getting very close although she has only just finished in a realtionship. She sent me this text yesterday. "I do really like you im just not ready for a relationship yet but its nothing against you. I really do care about you and want to be with you but its too soon after my last boyfriend. Love you with all my heart". Does this mean i should wait or is she just playing with me. Should move on?Thanks Chris
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 She is not playing with you. This girl is being honest and cautious as she is on rebound.
If you really like her, be supportive and giver her time until she is ready.
Do not apply pressure, just let her know you are there for her if she needs you.
Good luck
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reader, Nikita +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Hi anon, i dont think that she is playing with you. she just wants to take things slowly thats all. she cares for you obviously but she's probably feeling a little fragile after the break up of her last relationship and needs some time to adjust. its not always a good thing to walk straight into another relationship becasue you need some time to get your head straight so dont pressure her, give her the time she needs, be a good friend to her and then when she feels ready, she'll let you know. good luck and have a good xmasx
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reader, Kinky +, writes (17 December 2006):
Hey Chris,
If you really like this lady, don't pressure her, she needs time to settle her mind since she already voice up that she is not ready for a new relationship.
For the time being, just treat her as a normal friend that need support and care, on the other hand, don't pin too much hope as she may be too sad and need a companion that's all, anyhow, be patient and let's the nature to take it course.
Good luck!!
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reader, Aunty Haly +, writes (17 December 2006):
No I don't think she's playing with you, I think she sent it to basically say, i want you to know that i want to get to know you, i want to spend time with you, but i want to make sure i don't get hurt again. Its just a way of her telling you she would be hurt if you got it together with anyone else. Just make sure she knows that you'll wait but not forever.
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