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*ia5
writes:i have been liking this guy for abou five years. we used to be close friends. then, he started to date one of my friend. after a three months, they broke up as the girl was actually fooling around with him. after that, the guy and i became closer. my friends start to realise that he always looked at me and always minggle around with me. one day, when we were playing true or dare, i told this guy that i liked him. after that, he became much more closer to me. he even told his brother about me in the sense that i am his girlfriend. the following year, i got separated from this guy as i moved in to another class. we spent less time together. there is this girl, aby asked me whether i liked this guy and i said yes. few months later, my friends came and told me that the guy and aby were getting closer. some people started to badmouth me by telling that i was the reason why that guy and aby can't got together. then i decided to confrant the guy by telling that i liked him but if he choose that girl instead of me, i am fine with it. he replied me that they were friends only. he told me that he wants me and our friendship to continue. this year, me,aby, and the guy are in the same class. i realised that they were very close. when people pair them up, the guy does not say a single thing to deny it. instead he gave some kind of guilty look. we still continue our relationship as usual but we do not talk in public. the guy and i usually text. for some reasons, the guy don't talk to me in front of aby, but when aby is away, he will chat with me as asual. recently he told some of his friends that he liked me since he first knew me and still liking me. but the problem is, why he don't want to tell me that? he even tell his friends whatever he texted to me. whenever i talked to him about kai and him, we will start to argue and he will say that there is nothing between them. but in public, they are so close. sometimes i do wonder whether he is fooling me. there was once i joked with my friends that i don't like guys writing their girlsfriends' name in their books. the next day, i saw my name in the guy's book. when i asked him, he said that was not his writing but it was his handwriting as i asked some of his friends. once, when he saw that i was looking at him, he quickly went and chat with aby so i decided not to approach him. sometimes we even fight about this openly, but he will be the first one to give in eventhough he has a very high ego because he knew that i don't really come down to people especially guys. the problem is does he like me or not? if he do why is he so close to aby? is he fooling me? should i leave this guy and move on? recently i realised there is another guy started to show interest in me but this problem is making me not to move on yet. this problem had been bothering me for five years and i hope you can help me. thanks.
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reader, ria5 +, writes (25 August 2012):
ria5 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. appreciated it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): he is fooling both od you . these guy has complete confidance that all he has to do is give you some attion and your head ove heels for you. if these guy has known for years that you like him and has yet to start a relationship with you then it means that he does what one with you . this guy seems like a player and a bad friend at that. if he cared about you he would have enough respect for you to once and for all make his feeling clear . if your up for it id say that you need to face him look him in the eyes and tell him if he whats to be your boyfriend or not . if he says he needs time to think then thats a no so forget him. youve given enough of your time to this guy, its time to move forward with him or without him.
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