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writes: Hi,I have been with a girlfriend for almost 2years and of late she doesn't call me,i told him we get married this Dec but she told me that if she is holding/delaying me she better leave me.Along with it another lady has really approached me very much for the last 3 months.she was to fall in love with me.What can i do.Should i leave the first one and go on with the new one or i just wait for the first one untill she is ready. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): I suggest you talk to the lady that you are supposed to get married to in December. Explain to her how you feel and ask her about the future of your relationship; if she is not sure she needs to set you free to explore other opportunities.
I suggest after you have spoken to her, you will know how she feels, then you will know if it is worth waiting for her or if it is time you move on.
Talk to her before you get involved with somebody else, as you don't want to be called a "cheater'.
Good luck
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