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writes:I went out with this guy on Friday night and we got along really well, the date went on for 5 hours (no kiss at the end, just a hug - I wasn't too comfortable just yet). At the end he asked me on a second date for Saturday night but I already had plans with a friend so told him I’d give him a call if things changed. On Saturday morning he messaged me and said he had a nice time with me and wants to do it again soon. I took a while responding to him but said I had a nice time too and can’t do anything this weekend but maybe the next. He replied to me and said next weekend would be great and I said we’ll arrange something this week. He was ok with this.I was a bit hesitant to see him for a second date so soon because I didn’t want to rush and also because I wasn’t that sure about him. Now I’ve had time to let things sink in and I really want to see him. I’m now thinking that perhaps I came across as not that interested. Does this really matter that much?So now… do I wait for him to contact me or do I call him to arrange something? Does it sound like he will? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. I liked all your advice and messaged him. He got back to me immediately to set up our next date. Wish me luck!
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reader, Loral.  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 No, I don't think you come across as uninterested, or you wouldn't have mentioned a second date.
He will probably contact you, but why not contact him first to arrange a second date?
It will show that you are definetly keen to see him again! Good luck :)
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Yeah, call him so that you two can arrange something.
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reader, bootyboot +, writes (20 April 2009):
yeah, i would just drop him a line saying you had a great time and hope to see him again soon, possibly next weekend. then let him do the planning. i think if you are overeager, he might not dig that. you know how men are, they like the chase and if you make it too easy they lose interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): yes it sounds like he was interested and will contact you. however it cant hurt to message him and say something like you are looking forward to seeing him this weekend. you know to kind of solidify that you are interested and want to go out.
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