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writes: Help, My smart bf is always rubbing in my face how smart he is, and I always feel stupid and pissed off. When I'm annoyed with something and tell him, instead of him saying it's ok you'll get through, or just by saying it'll be ok, calms me down, and instead tells me get over it, there is no use in complaining over "discombobulated situations, that muster all the negative energies?" COME ON, what happened to straight forward to the point phrases. I'm mad at him for being insensitive to my feelings and makes me feel as though my problems are pathetic.I wish I didn't tell him when things are in my mind so that he doesnt insult me about them, what should I do about this? NOT tell him anything or not be there when Mr Perfect needs help. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (27 January 2006):
 It's mind numbing why you would still be in this relationship. Drop him like a hot potato.
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reader, shania  +, writes (27 January 2006):
 This guy of yours has his head so far up his arse he cannot see no further.The trouble with him is he thinks he is being clever with the smart ass comments... most women would find that a big turn off.If he is always talking down to you i suggest that you walk away and tell him to have a relationship with a dictionary.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (27 January 2006):
 Men (as a rule) like to fix things and look good. Females like to listen and share emotions. But your guy sounds like a fool.
Like the anon guy says "leave the moron" and find someone who can give you the proper love and support you should expect from a healthy relationship.
good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): leave the moron
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