Do I talk to my boyfriend about feelings my friend and I have for each other?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I good friend of mine and i have been going through some rough times latly. unfortunaly we both began to belive we had feelings for eachother because we were both the only constant in each others lives. I have now realized i do not love him. I love my boyfriend he means absolutly everything to me and although we had some rough patches in our realtion ship it would kill him to find out i even thought i liked my friend. My friend on the other hand has reached the point he dosnt think he loves his current girlfriend and theyre going on a break. Hes told his girlfriend about our conversation and now shes messaging me through face book. All i could say is i dont have feelings for him and im extremly sorry. I do feel incredibly guilty but my friend is an equal partner in this . What do i do here? im so lost and talking to people dosnt seem to make things better...just makes it worse. :/

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