A
male
age
36-40,
*outure
writes:Hi I in a bit of a mess. there's guy who has been my best friend for like two years we did kind of date in that time but i wanted more and he didnt so we kind of fell out and did not speak for half a year i moved on sorted my self out got a great job my own house started dateing other guys and stuff i made contact with him again and we been best friends again just meeting up and hanging out but on his 21st birthday we got very drunk were dirty dancing and stuff at the end of the party we wre outside hugging and then he kissed me and we made out like loads any way nex day I tex him and said what did it mean to him it met a alot he said but hes not sure what he wants and neither do I I scared to take that risk with him again cause he hurt me so much last time round Ive given him time he rarely replys to my texs Ive asked him out right how he feels and what he wants he just ingnors me why cant he tell me out right yes I want to be with you or no I don't what are we friends lovers what? everything was fine before we kissed and now I dont know what to do or say or how to act around him sometimes hes so cold and off other times the sun rises and sets with me and he'll drop everything to see me others times I just feel I get on his nerves what do I do?
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reader, eitak_x +, writes (30 November 2007):
 look at the bigger picture. life is a precious thing as we only recieve one opportunity at it. Therefore, make sure that you dont become an "if" person. Take a risk, after all, thats what life is all about. Since shes your best friend you know everything about each other, so there will be no horrible suprises brought up at a later date.
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