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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:well me and my boyfriend broke up but we have our times when we go to the park and act like were a couple again like doing all the things we used to for example kissing and touching eachother but were not together it's mostly him who suggests it..does that mean something? And when we do go out, he likes to rub my vagina alot is this ok? Whenever i do something all i think of is him i try to associate everything to him and whenever i close my eyes all i see is him still..what does this mean? do i still love him?
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reader, pwincess +, writes (16 September 2007):
 Hi!Boys are strange you may think they mean one thing but it maybe a whole different thing! It is ok that he is rubbing your vagina unless you are not happy with it and it doesn't go any further although you are a bit young! But every one has it done to them at some stage! Love is a very strong word to use, you may love him but it depends on how well you know him and all about him you can only love some one fully when you are connected properly like soul mates, boys at this age are hard to guess what they are doing so he may still like you but he may just be in it for a bit of fun. What i would do is come out and ask him straight if he still likes you!good luck
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reader, rcn  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 First I think that you younger people give too much detail when asking questions. I'll answer your question, but first you need to understand "sex = sex", it does not equal love.
You're breaking up is a sign which shows lack of commitment. If you are looking for a relationship that is equal commitment to each other, playing touchy feely is not the way to go about it. Your relationship ended, which ended the commitment, by playing in the park, all you're doing is allowing him to have what he had in the relationship, without having to commit to you. Meaning, he can play in the park with you, and with someone else.
As far as do you still love him? I don't know. I don't know you or him, or what you're feeling. Don't let yourself be tricked. A crush has some feelings of love, lust does as well. There is a difference between really liking someone and loving them. Your answer is within yourself and how you feel.
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