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writes: im sooo confused.. i love my boyfriend, dearly.. but hes 22 and im not even 21.. and hes like one of my only friends..He is sooo serious about us, and i dont even know how i feel about him. and i dotn want to lose him... but i still have an erge to date other people, and i gotta admit, im kinda interested in someone else.. i just know that i love my bf.. its almost like i maybe would be with my bf forever if we met 5 years from now.. but im still young and wanna have fun.. and i have been going over and over the process through my mind. i dont want to risk losing such a wonderful thing,and i dont know if ill ever find such a wonderful thing again, yet im feeling like im in such a conflict with myself. do you have any suggestions? i feel like i cant talk to anyone about this because my bf is one of my only friends.and my other friends just tell me to do what feels right. but i dont know what feels right.. and my logic tells me to stay with him, but my emotions say, "date new people, "ide appreciate any advice you could give me. Reply to this Question
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 You are still young, and you have this inner voice, your gut feel, that says you need to date other people and not tie yourself down yet. You should always go with your gut, It never lets you down.This is your survival mechanism kicking in, your inner voice that speaks to you, and you need to do what is right FOR YOU.Life should be about having fun, especially while you are young.Explain the way you feel to your boyfriend and make sure he understands how much you value having him as a true friend, there is no need to lose his friendship, if you are honest with him.Be happy and take care.
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