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writes:I have met a beautiful Asian women at work, and i have been lucky enough to have been out on one date with her. Two weeks after the date she let me have her phone number, i called her a week later to say that i'd like to build up a nice relationship with her, but she wasn't being very chatty, although i did appreciate that she was at her evening job at the time, i also asked her if she was interested in meeting up with me again and she said yes. I have seen her at work a few times since our date and it seems as though she is ignoring me. Today i was walking in the town centre and my heart sank when i saw her hand in hand with another man. I need to know if i stand a chance with this girl.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 I am thinking you need to sit back a bit and see if she starts talking to you at work. If she is ignoring you and you saw her with a man then I'd say she may be taken and perhaps she couldn't tell you herself as she didn't want to hurt you. It could also be that she doesn't like to date people at work. That is hard to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): she may have just given you her number in a friendly way and just sees the two of you being friends and nothing more...she obviuosy isnt giving you any signals to say she is intrested as she is already with someone else and im sure you wouldnt want to come inbetween there relationship.
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reader, auvi  +, writes (1 December 2007):
holding hands is actually normal in asian culture even among friends. for your case, you need to make more contacts and be more friendlier with her. get to know her even more and let her know about you. work on building up a friendship... while at work, stop by her desk sometimes for a short chat, offer her lunch or help at works ... then u might stand a chance
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