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male
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anonymous
writes:hi everyone, ok so i need some girl advice. i haven't had a girlfriend and i'm 18 i don't have a problem with that i just want to know do i sound like an attractive guy? i know it sounds stupid but i could really do with some self confindence because i feel a bit embarressed about the way i look sometimes.i have black short/medium hair that i gel in a fawhawk and my fringe a bit spiked up aswell, i have thick black eye brows with brown eyes. i weigh about 9 stone 5 ft 6/7in not muscley at all very small arms. i usually wear sneakers with jeans and a chequared or plain buttoned shirt with a plain black/navy blue jumper my shirt untucked so it is noticeable under my jumper. sometimes i wear a huddie or a plain polo shirt and if its cold i usually wear a long sleve shirt under my polo shirt.do i sound like i dress well? and do i sound like im a guy girls are attricted to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): Hi there, when I was your age I was more interested in a guy who was a bit tidier. There is nothing wrong with some creativity in your look, but for girls to be interested and want to get to know you and hang out witj you I would suggest the following. (I used to work in fashion and still do styling from time to time in my work with photos etc).- Lose any jumpers with hoods (they will give the impression of a smaller younger guy). If you must wear one save it strictly for outdoor days off activities - but even then choose another option over a hood. Throw them all out they will not help you.- Hair sounds good but lose the gel - it's horrible to date a guy with gel in the hair. no one likes it, just use a soft leave in conditioner with small ammount of a light hair mousse and let the hair sit down a bit more than usual rather than flattening it into a stiff shape.- Go for tailored classic shapes. You have creative hair and a vibe and these shapes will make you appear really well dressed without losing the creativity of your hair.- Avoid any tops made out of sweat shirt/sweat pant material. They will make you look younger and shorter.An ideal modern - girl catching look for Autumn/Spring-Black semi fitted v neck light merino jumper with horizontal white stripes, white shirt underneath.- Nice black cargoes without many pockets, close fitting not baggy, straight leg only. (Neve wear wider leg pants pinched in at the ankles - making you look shorter).-The jumper can also be worn with some tighter fitting cords and jeans.Summer or outdoor activities-Shorts where the length sits to show off the biggest part of your leg (calf or if you have slim legs - wear them just above the knee and concentrate on the shape of your legs - e.g. do some calf raises). - Light coloured tops will make you appear nice to be around and look social and also make you appear a little bigger. (Nothing wrong with your size but you don't want to look smaller in clothes or weaker than you are).All the best!
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