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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Here's the situation. There's a lady I've been interested in for a few years. I've known her for almost 6. I rarely see her but when we communicate (both in person or via online) we seem to have a good connection. By that I mean, there's always eye contact, we talk about anything and there's never a silent moment, etc. She actually bought me Christmas present at a family get-together when she didn't buy anyone else in my family gifts.. I could go on. I feel that she may have some interest in me but may be holding back for a couple of reasons. 1) She's two years older than me. She's 23, I'm 21. I seriously doubt this a big issue. She seems like a very open minded girl and wouldn't turn down someone based on their age.2) The biggest 'issue', her uncle is engaged to my mother. This is the main reason why I won't make any moves on her or why she won't make a move herself. My question is: Do I respect the family and not make a move on her? I know this could complicate things if I did make a move. Should I go ahead and make a move and see where it goes? I'm a little wary of that since that may screw up things. Not only will it affect my friendship with her but it may cause problems between the family.Thoughts/advice? Sorry about the long post. Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): Don't make a move you're basically related now.
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