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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello there! Do I need to continue or end it? We've been together for 3 years. People always told me that he's cheating on me, but I don't mind because I know he's into me. That time I don't believe there are people like that who really cheats their girlfriends ( I guess I have a very innocent mind at that time). Things are alright between us. Time had passed I feel weird, I asked him if I was the only one of course he told me yes. So I started to think negatively on him.Then after our 2nd anniversary I found I that he was cheating on me. A concerned friend of mine told me that my boyfriend was seeing another girl. So I got the girl's number and decide to be nice to her. She told me everything I needed to know. Of course I was hurt so bad. We talked about it all night and I actually told her that we should met up with my boyfriend and break up with him. She didn't show up. I broke up with my boyfriend and we're on again. So another year have passed. Again fate really tests me. On my way to his house, I feel weird and that's when I caught them together. And my boyfriend and I got back again. I endured the thoughts up until now. Now, there times that I feel so stupid being with him. Some of my friends told me to stay away from him because they knew him. I really love him that's why I try to hold on and keep our relationship as it was before. I don't know if this is weird but I keep on thinking about my boyfriend and his mistress together doing something. Somehow it makes me paranoid. I don't know what to do? I need help:(
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 January 2012):
 You may never know for sure but the suspision is enough for you to act positively in your own defense. Why wait for the possible pain of confirmation?
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