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writes:I'm really confused on what to do here. If I should change the way I'm acting with him orr?There's a boy in my school who I really like a lot and he says he feels the same about me. We find it hard talking in person, but on msn and text it's fine and all good =] We talk about how much we like each other. We have a lot of aquadness in person though. He doesn't make much of an effort really.He was talking about going on holiday and how his brothers want him to get 'laid, stoned and pissed' . He told me this and I told him I was worried about the 'laid' part. I asked him if he was planning on going through with it. He said 'dunno'. He said he wanted to lose his virginity. Then I said what to a random girl on holiday? and he told me to leave it.This upset me and I'm scared and worried if he does do this on his holiday.My friend says he is doing it to make me jealous. He says I should make him jealous, but I'm too scared of making him angry and losing himWhat should I do? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIgnore the title lol. I dont want to make him jelous cos i feel that will make things worse
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reader, Rapustin  +, writes (15 November 2008):
listen,i am a guy and i'll break it down 4 u real easy, dis guy wants 2 have sex wit u but doesn't have the guts 2 ask 4 it, but da most important thin i want u 2 know iz dat in this situation u re in control 100%, so let's test him, see if he's worth somethin or nuttin.,
dis is what u'll do, next time he raises any topic 'bout he's losin his virginity en stuff tell him 2 go ahead en do whateva he feels like, say expressionlessly and care free as possible .. what eva u do don't have sex wit him datz the ace up ur sleeve believe me.,
sometimes we guys don't know how gud we have it...
pls do tell me how it works out ok?.,
peace.
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reader, cottongin  +, writes (15 November 2008):
 You should definitely let him know what you feel about that. My friend had a similar instance, where this guy she wasn't official with told her that he was going to sleep with another woman. However in that case it was different, becuase they werent official to begin with as she was under 18 and he was over. a lot over. (27) and so he couldn't sleep with her. She really was not okay wit him sleeping with someone else but what could she do.
YOU have more say in this. talk to him deary!
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