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writes:So I've liked this guy since September. We have loads in common and I fell for him hard. I backed off for awhile, because he was in a long distance relationship but in the beginning of January they finally broke up. I was going to make my move on Valentines day, (I know its corny and everything but I just started seeing him again when our schedules finally changed in school so I figured we'd start talking more and it be perfect to timing to make my move.) but he just started dating a new girl at our school. This is driving me insane she's way more prettier, and thinner than me and into hockey which is his passion. So should I let him go and lose the first guy I've made a connection with in high school (and I'm a senior now)again or do I take a risk and make a move? And now that he has a girlfriend again I have to be nonchalant any suggestions???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): I think he just likes you as a friend so I wouldn't make a move. I would ask yourself if you want to make the friendship awkward or not by telling him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 Dont make a move on him as such because this will back fire and you will be known as the girl that came in between a relationship and believe me you dont want that hanging over you do you?
But i think it is best that you do tell him how you feel. So that you will know that you done whatever you could and if he decided to stay with his girlfriend you can move on and accept that you tried.
Next time you see him just ask him has he got time for a chat that it is important and when that time comes just tell him how you have been feeling since september, explain that you waited until his relationship was over and even though you understand that he is with another girl now you just want to tell him how you have been feeling. Goodluck and all the best.
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reader, rachel aniston  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 i think u must leave him to his new girlfriend ,let him be just your good friend if u want ......getting b/w them is something that can make you depressed and its not important to hold the first nice guy in your relation forever you will meet your special guy someday afterall.
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