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Do I lie about the paternity of my child?

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Question - (2 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *hen_Will_It_Happen77 writes:

Im, back wit ha "sequal" to my last question(lol).. umm well i have not gotten my period yet. and if i dont get it this month im worried i might be pregnant. my and my BF havent been using protection all the time. PLus i have cheated on him..='( he knows, but thinks it was only with one guy. If i am pregnat im not sure its gonna be his kid. but he may think it and so will evryone at school. if i tell him its not and he tells peps at school it aint.. hows that gonna look for both of s. So my quetion is..

when i have the kid schould i gt him tested or just let him think it could be his.. GUYS OPINIONS WANTED!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008):

Never let him think that it is his! My God, never have this thought of making him think it was his own! That is just terrible!

He spends everyday of his life looking forward to being a father, cuddles the woman who's carrying his baby, talks to the belly, adores the baby, raises it, guides it, teaches it watches the child grow up, sees him marry and gets grandkids... only to never realise that the child is not his? Can you do that to him? How can you even consider this an option?

At what point of the timeline that I depicted above do you think it would ever be right to tell him?

You need tell him before all this, i.e. NOW!

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