A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I've thought of breaking up with him for almost a year. There is always something that keeps me from doing it. I think, "He'll get it together. He'll stop being selfish." He is jobless (his own accord) and homeless (if I do this). I do love him, I just don't want the same life-style that he does.Should I wait until after Christmas? Or am I only cruel to wait?
View related questions:
christmas Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 It's really only cruel to wait from the transition from "new" to "established" relationship. 5 years is already well into "established territory, so on him, a few months will make no difference. It is however, cruel ON YOURSELF to wait. One year is a very long time to not be happy, look after number one!
A
male
reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Decide now before Christmas. Use the time to put the plans into place to minimise the aftershock. Then do it after Christmas.
...............................
|
