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anonymous
writes:First off a little about me.I have a girlfriend been going out 9 years living together for 7.I own a home with her and we have a 4 year old son.She has a friend that i've known for about 8 years,she has a boyfriend to whom i'm close but not as close with him than with her.I always thought she was good looking but wasen't attracted to her until maybe 2 years ago.Now we flirt for fun at first then we started taking walks together holding hands and telling each other how fun it would be for us to be together.About 2 weeks ago she told me that she had an erotic dream with me and how hot it was.Funny thing the same night I had the exact same dream.I now can't really stop thinking about her and she has told me she feels the same way.We are going to meet next week to talk about our little situation.My question is:I want to be with her and I think she feels the same way.What do we do?This will ruin our whole circle of friends both our familys(she has a son but not with her actual boyfriend).Do I just spit on all that I have built with my girlfriend just to be with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): No you dont. You dont say how happy you are at home or the state of your relationship. I think this woman is just having fun flirting with her `friends` partner and you would do better to be out walking hand in hand with the woman you chose to make a life with and the child you gave her....not her friend! This woman sounds as untrustworthy as you are, so you might suit each other but remember my friend, you might end up being the next chump she cheats on. The grass may look greener but ........You dont want to ruin and lose everything just for a fling which is probably all this would ever be.
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