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Do I have to attend ex husbands fuctions?

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Question - (1 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2009)
A female Australia age , anonymous writes:

Help me please. I would like to know what others think re as follows:

I am divorced for 15 years. I am a successful Doctor. Do I have to talk to my ex husbands new wife. My adult children can not stand her. His sisters cannot stand her. His mother cannot stand her. She is a manipulative woman and sneaky.

I am to attend a function, and my sons inlaws want to invite her to a party. They specifically asked my son did he want to invite her. He said no!

Now days before the event, they inform him they feel bad if they do not invite her. They say what will people think.

Interesting, as the inlaws did not speak to their own parents for 6 years. They didn't care about people then.

Am i unreasonable? Should I attend when she is there (and I feel so uncomfortable), am I right in what I am saying.

Please readers I would love you help.

Regards

me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

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I cannot thank you ALL so much. I cannot believe the answers I received from all respondents.

They are so right, I do not need to pretend. I am my own person. I do not need to be in same room as ex let alone his wife.

Thanks all so much. I really do mean this.

Thankyou

Dezig

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A male reader, roadman United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2009):

roadman agony auntYour a free person,you go where you want,when you want with who you want,if your not at ease in someone company then stay apart its that simple..

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