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writes:Hi, first of all, my profile is incorect, my age is 24 :). Ok, so I've noticed that way more girls seem to get interested in me than guys, and since I feel safer around women or men, I'm more likely to be friendly, which makes them more likely to hit on me. It also seems like many people only want to be friends with me to have sex with me, and people who don't want to sleep with me don't have much interest in spending time with me. Am I lacking in social skills?I wear skirts a lot and am often pretty "girly", so why do I get so few men asking me out and so many women pushing and trying to sleep with me? Also, most of the guys that I date turn out to be bi. Is there something really masculine about me? Is there something wrong with my hormones or something? What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (6 June 2011):
 I like the idea of ask the next woman that hits on you why she thought you might be interested, you can learn a lot thaat way.
Also, why not try making more of an effort to talk to men, at work, when your out, that way you are more likely to meet someone and also if these women never see you talking to men only women, that may be one reason they may assume your gay.
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reader, freeme  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 I think you should ask the next girl that hits on you why she thought you would be receptive to that.
Is it the crowd you hang with? Do you live in an area with many bi/gay people?
I am pretty clueless about gay culture, but maybe you have something you do with accessories (Clothing, hair, jewelry) that is giving off clues. You said you wear skirts, but if you have on a flannel shirt and work boots, the skirt isn't going to say "I'm man hunting". Seriously though, just ask them and maybe you will learn something.
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