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anonymous
writes:Please help. I am in love with this girl. We are friends, and have known each other for about three years. I told her i really liked her once, it kinda just slipped out when i was talking to her. SHe rejected me, saying that she didnt feel the same way. I have been a little more quite and sheltered while talking lately, becaused i realized i loved her. Should i tell her i love her even though i know she will just reject me once agian? Or should i cut her out of my life until i can get over her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): i too was in this situation when i was your age. it did not work out at that time, but a few years later it did with her. we ended up dating for a few months and the relationship faded rather quickly. when i think back now, i didnt care for her as much when we dated as i had when i told her my feelings the first time. i guess since she had burned me i wanted to burn her back..subconsciously. now even a few years later, we are 'friends' but only talk a couple times a year. that was my experience but it may be very different for you..
my advice is to not let this hurt you too much, as you may end up becoming cold hearted to females in the next few years and messing up several potentially great relationships.
if i could go back, i would have put 'telling her how you feel' on hold. but that means you need to move on as well for now. when you both mature a bit more it will be much easier to keep it together.
best of luck.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): Be cool, be friends, protect yourself for now. No confessions needed.
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