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writes:Ok, i need a 2nd opinion on this.Recently i have got really close with "jim" at school, and people have told me he likes me, apparently its really obvious, like the way he stared at me with my ex(we broke up recently), the way he looks at me, the way he talks 2 me and walks me 2 class on occasions, but he has made it clear to me that he doesnt want to go out with me, everytime i meantion it - as i joke, he'd be like "have a nice time trying to go out with me" - which then just confuses me.I have discused this with my closest friends who undoubtly think he likes me. This also links to my next thing, even if he does like me, should i ask him? We are are close and tell each other everything, and i wouldnt want to ruin that. :Sim confused, would apreciate help
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reader, mattie90  +, writes (20 September 2009):
 guys like a chase so if you keep asking if he likes you hes not going to respond. keep him guessing not you. try this dont talk to him for a couple days, hes going to ask you if your mad. tell him no im just busy, hes going to try and keep talking to you. and when you feel your good and ready to talk to him again just keep it simple. if he asks why you havent talked to him in awhile say that you have been busy and that you needed some time to yourself. if he asks you if youve been going on dates on seeing someone tell him no. and if he seems defensive when he asks you if youve been going on dates he does like you and is jealous. and just keep the chase going but dont take it to far then he will lose interest.
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