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anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid Members, I need some killer advice... I am 19m and I am bisexual. I have a crush on my manager he is a sweet caring guy and we flirt all the time, but I dont know what his sexuality is he found out I thought he maybe gay, and he did not deny it! He has no clue that I am bi though..... The other part of the problem is I also have feelings for a female coworker who says she feels the same way.... Do I date the female coworker or do I find out more about my male manager because I do have more feelings for him I a so confused. Maybe I am wasting my time on him please help!!!!! I am glad you took the time to read this and all advice is welcome I will thank everone who tries to help wit a email..... Thanks, Anonymous
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Getting involved with a manager is a good way to get fired! He has the control and power over you. WIth the girl, try to be friends for a while before making it sexual. If you are friends first, things have a way of working out better.
But bi sexual people usually make things complicated for the other person and unless they are bi, they will expect you to choose. If sex is involved, they will still want to be exclusive too.
Best to find sex mates outside of work.
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reader, becca78  +, writes (6 December 2008):
Just want to say that it's never a good idea getting involved with your boss! Particularly if he's still in the closet! If it doesn't work it can cause problems at work for both of you. And if you like him more that the female, maybe you should stay away from her as well cos chances are she's gonna get hurt.
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