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female
age
30-35,
*upergirl
writes:I asked out my friend last week because for months now we have been in love with each other and we had told each other that but he had never asked me out so i did it. He said he wanted to say yes because he does love me. Our best friend had told Harry that he was in love with him and thats why he can't say yes to me just yet. I love matt with all my heart and is one of my closest friends but i cant help feel he's just standing in my way of being with the lad i want to and living my life the way I'd like to. Matt knows harry doesn't love him back in the way he'd like him too so if he is our best friend why does he want us to be so unhappy? what should i do? if i date harry i would be hurting matt and if i don't i shall be hurting myself.
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reader, truncated  +, writes (10 May 2007):
 This is a very usual query.... when u have to chose betweena guy u like and ur friend but then here is the thing. a friend is one who thinks best about you but that changes when sh also likesthe same person then its more about getting the person both of u like . you should go up to her ans ask her wht has the problem. and all of you should sit together and decide. I really hope this helps. bye.
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