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writes:im so confussed, me and my boyfriend have broken up because of my friend. she kept getting invovled, and emailing my boyfriends babies mother. due to this he couldnt cope with the stress as it was one thing after another. me and my friend had a huge arguement and feel out and about a week later me and my boyfriend split. me and my boyfriend are still talking, and the other day my friend phoned me saying she wants to forget about everything but if me and my boyfriend are still in contact shes not going to stick around. i dont know what to do because if i do stay in contact with my boyfriend iv lost a friend but i do love him. but if i blow of my boyfriend, have i messed up the chance of us getting back if there is a chance, and is she going to do this again and get invovled with every boy i get with as she has done this once before. im so confussed am scared of being alone, but dont know what to do help ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): Why was your friend getting involved? It sounds like she was trying to look out for you but in your opinion got carried away.
Well what is so special about this guy and why does your friend hate him so much? Just throwing this out but just the mere fact that he has a baby mama is a red flag right there. I mean at your age that spells, M-E-G-A L-O-S-E-R.
If I were you I would no doubt choose your friend. If she needs to tone down her interfering in the future just talk to her about it. But I would not sever this friendship with a girl who has your back 100% for this douche who has a baby and a baby mama.
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reader, chrisidorf  +, writes (10 March 2011):
The sound 'your friend getting involved' makes me wanna puke. If she doesn't care about your happiness, she no friend at all. Is she the kind of friend you are worried about? Just shun her asap.....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 March 2011):
What friend comes between a girl and her boyfriend - unless she is a hugely jealous girl out to ruin everything?
Seriously, you need to get away from this friend of yours! She'll wreck every relationship you ever have with anyone at this rate.
Your friend has done this before, and she's doing it now. She's not a friend at all, and you are never going to be able to move forward with anyone unless you get rid of this crappy friend who ruins everything for you.
And yes, blow off your boyfriend now and you'll lose him. Would you really sit around wasting time on someone who lets their friend ruin their life?
Out with the friend!
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