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writes:Not sure if I'll get the right answer but here goes. Been seeing this 43 yr old lady and she doesn't look like it, initially she set the terms, a casual relationship with no strings and I thought oh well sounds good since we are both busy most times. She has kids and she's divorced as well. Lately she's been exhibiting some strange attitude like the situation is about me(that means me just wanting sex all the time). I would like to know when do you draw the line at casual stuffs and if this is a revelation to run now, do I do so or keep enjoying the benefits? I tried ignoring her messages for about a while now but recently she wants to get together soon, do I keep enjoying the benefits or just call it quits once and for all?
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reader, Dwizzy +, writes (3 November 2015):
Dwizzy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, well I went with your decision but she's been sending some really x-rated photos and as I said she's really attractive. I guess I need to justify the reason to tap her once more.
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reader, peekn'boo  +, writes (3 November 2015):
 As a past FWB participant (; I think is realizing herself worth and is feeling used. I think you should end it and find another because she has kids so she's not the type to continue being FWB for much longer. Also are playing with fire because she seems like she is mature meaning she would want some stability and if you aren't ready to offer her that, she might just develop feelings.
So point is let her down easy and walk away!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (3 November 2015):
 I think it's time to call it quits. She no longer believes she's getting much benefit out of this arrangement. Either she's starting to form an attachment or she's just starting to feel used.
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