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writes: I recently ended a long friendship as I found out that my friend was backstabbing me and she cancelled coming to my graduation five minutes before, saying she was very ill and then went clothes shopping. She told my friend that the guy I was seeing (he has since broke it off) had his arm around another girl at a party, which I picked him up from before she said she had arrived. I saw him the other day with his arm around a girl, which makes me think she was telling the truth. Now I don't know whether to believe my ex-friend's gossip or to accept that this guy never cared about me. It's not so much his possible betrayal but hers, as I have put so much time and energy into this friendship and I am hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): I think you should trust in your gut. The fact that she lied to you and blew you off on an important day for you is glaringly obvious how she is; into herself and unhappy.
Unhappy people are mean and wish for others to fail and hurt.
It's a good thing you cut out such a cancerous person in your life.
Since you broke off the relationship with the Ex; why should you seeing him moving on and dating another girl as him possibly the cheating type? You ended it. He's moved on. I don't see any evidence to support the theory of him cheating on you while you were together. He'd have to fess up and is it really worth the bother to even ask? NO.
Either way, neither of them are in your life. Let it go.
Just be happy with your life and the many oppurtunities you have ahead of you, you will find what you need when the time is right.
Congratulations on graduating and I hope you have a good upcoming year.
Enjoy your summer.
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