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writes: Dearest Cupid,I really love/fancy (I think it's love at first sight. I've had other boyfriends but have never felt this way about anyone.) This guy who used to go to my school, though left last year because he is a year older. But the thing is he works in a shop near where I live and I have gone there to see him a few times. Although I'm normally very confident and flirty when I'm round him I feel really shy. However when I went in there once with a friend to buy something (although I didn't buy from him), and saw him go for his break brushing past me, but when I went outside he was standing further down the street next to another shop, so me and my mate went in there and when we came out he was still there. According to my friend, when I walked past him he looked at me, even moving his head as I walked up the street (I didn't see because I turned away from him really badly), so we stood by a post further on and ate, which is when he went into the shop we'd just been in, and when he came out he stood by a wall eating and kept glancing over at me. Other times I go in he always brushes past me and smiles, but because I'm so nervous I just end up blanking him. Also he used to smile at me when he went to my school, even though we never knew each other. I know his name (from mutual friends)and I found out his phone number and address in the phone book, but I don't know how to make a move without making a fool of myself because I'm worried in case he'd turn me down, even though I get lots of guy attention all the time. Please help because I think it was love at first sight and I don't know what to do. It's making me so sad I cut myself and always feel depressed. Thank You in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2006): Don't get your hopes up. Little glances can mean anything.
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reader, shania  +, writes (16 March 2006):
 Hey!...dont get depressed over this,what you need to do is make it very clear that you are interested in him and that you would like to go out on a date with him.See,while you are just popping in and out of shops and hoping to catch a glance at him...or whether he is looking at you....you are not getting anywhere,it does seem that he likes you and he smiles at you when your paths meet...so why dont you just pluck up the courage and say hello to him....hopefully...he should respond back,then get the ball rolling by talking to him,make conversation....then if he seems shy to ask you out then why dont you take the plunge and ask him out.....i know it might seem scary but what have you got to lose?...otherwise,you will never know.Good luck.
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reader, shania +, writes (16 March 2006):
Hey!...dont get depressed over this,what you need to do is make it very clear that you are interested in him and that you would like to go out on a date with him.See,while you are just popping in and out of shops and hoping to catch a glance at him...or whether he is looking at you....you are not getting anywhere,it does seem that he likes you and he smiles at you when your paths meet...so why dont you just pluck up the courage and say hello to him....hopefully...he should respond back,then get the ball rolling by talking to him,make conversation....then if he seems shy to ask you out then why dont you take the plunge and ask him out.....i know it might seem scary but what have you got to lose?...otherwise,you will never know.Good luck.
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