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writes:I told to my bf whom I dated for one month that Iam virgin..He respected me and said he wait me until Iam ready.. and he wanted to be with me forever.Do the guys wait their gf or change their behaviors toward gf when the girl told to bf she is virgin and she is not ready to have sex with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): Some guys don't get turned on by text messages. And I don't think that he would be any less turned on by you just because you are a virgin. There are still plenty of thigns you can do with him and I'm sure he knows that and is looking forward to it. Plus, the message you wrote to him isn't really a turn-on kind of message. You have to put more intreague into it, name a few body parts nad what you'd like him to be doing to you, where to touch you, etc.
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reader, ann84 +, writes (6 October 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can not text him anymore that turn him on...cuz he knows Iam virgin maybe he does not have any pleasure anymore cuz he can think that she is virgin so she probably didint do these things to any guys...
for insstance I text him that is that fair when ur at the meeting and Iam taking shower without u?
he text me back that lol nite fair thats it...
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reader, ann84 +, writes (6 October 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow do u make ur guys have sexually pleasure? cuz he knows Iam virgin and if I text him that turn on he can think ooohhh she is virgin so she probably didint do any knind of things to anyone else...Is that right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): Again with the behavior, all men are different. You really can't stick one pattern of thinking to every man alive. You will just have to wait and see what your paticular man does in your case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): Well, if he really cares about you he will wait. However, like Uncle Phil said, it's difficult to classify all guys into faithful and unfaithful, ESPECIALLY when we don't know him personally.
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reader, Max Clark  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Well obviously not all guys are the same, but he should wait for you because its the right thing to do.
If he does start to change because you aren't ready yet then you need to talk to him more about it, that you just aren't ready for sex yet and you need time, he should understand :)
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reader, ann84 +, writes (6 October 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat about their behaviors? Dp they change after they learned their gf told them they are virgin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): Hi. It depends on the man. I've known men who would wait till marraige if I asked them to and men who looked to cheat the second they heard "no sex."
You don't want to have sex with him yet but there are plenty of other things to do, sexually. Even the most patient men need some sexual pleasure, it's part of how humans work. It's good for us physically and emotionally, to help us feel loved and attrative by our partners. So don't leave him in the dark. Show him love, affection, loyalty, honesty, fun.. and you should e fine! Some relationships are so dull that sex is the only thing that keeps them alive. Make sure you don't have one of those dull ones because without sex, it may not survive.
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Sadly, this all depends on the type of guy...
If the guy really loves his girlfriend, then yes he will wait for as long as it takes!
Unfortunately, some guys can't think about anything but sex and get what they want somewhere else..
The guy might even say to the girl that if she really loves him then she'll sleep with him...
Important thing is to never let someone pressure you into doing something your not ready for!! No matter what they might say
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): How can you possibly generalise? Every man is different - as is every woman.
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