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26-29,
*lisaVali
writes:Hello, so there is a guy who was at aplarty, a few days later he added me on Facebook and started talking to me. Basically, he started adding me on other social medias and also talked to me there and kind of flirted and complimented me. He was fast at replying (he replies once I reply to him). I met him again, and he greet me in a nice way, he looked very nervous and tried to open a conversation with me but I was distracted with something else, he sat beside me and when he saw me with no respond to him, he just moved. He ways comment and compliment on my photos. On real life, he seems to be nervous, shy and always catch him stealing glances at me. Could he be interested on me? But, a few days ago, I texted him first for the first time. He saw my text, and replied after 18 hours? Is it normal for guys to be late for texting that long?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 July 2015):
 My guess is, one of his friends gave him to LAME advice to wait 2-3 days before replying so he doesn't seem TOO interested..
Some people are VERY social and chatty online, but when it comes to "real life" they are not. It's SO much easier to seem confident behind a screen then in front of another human being.
You didn't excatly make it easy for him either, did you?
Being all "distracted" and not engaging in conversation.
Could also be that he thinks you are not really interested.
It's kind of impossible to say. If you are interested, ask him out, only way to find out. If he says yes, then go have fun and don't be "distracted" and un-engaged in the conversation.
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reader, Fari +, writes (5 July 2015):
 Hey Alisa Vali,Dont you worry. I already know that he is interested in you , just by the fact he added you on all other social networks. People who just met you dont normally be quick to add you up on all those networks though. Also you mentioned that he replies fast, another bonus ! He also gets nervous when talking you you because he likes you , it could be a crush as well as the real deal but you have to see where it goes. If you are interested in him then you should try talking and flirting a little with him. That first date didnt go so well as he just moved when you werent talking because he thinks that you are not interested and arent you? You also mentioned that the replies are getting later. He could be slipping away and losing interest. So please if you are into him , reschedule another meet up and send a heat warming text everyday.
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