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writes:I REALLY like this older guy who's popular and a lot of girls like him. I have talked to him now and then and whenever I do it's probably the best feeling ever. Ive noticed that on his face book he talks to a lot of really pretty girls, and comments there pictures saying there cute ect...I really want be this guys friend but I honestly don't think I'm good enough to even speak a word to him. Most of the girls that like him are whores who give him blow jobs 24/7 and shit. I don't want anything like that with him just friendship. What could I do to make him talk to me more?...And prove to him that I may be a little younger than all those other girls but I'm not a whore. Just my main worry is that I'm not good enough for him, and I want to know if teenaged boys only care about perfect looking girls and blow jobs...Or if they will actually take time to be friends with someone who is a decent person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys a lot, things make more seance now(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): I don't think that it's advisable that you two become friends, you seem vulnerable and could be easily led by this guy, perhaps eh flirts with you as he does with a lot of his friends, you may think he likes you specifically, and then might thing you're kinda going out, andd start doing sexual favours, you fancy him way too much to be his friend as you're not already
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess deep inside I do..But I mostly just wanna be his friend. I mean Ive liked him for 4 years so I saw him grow up and change, so I know a lot about him from just observations and form stories that people have told me. He's sorta been a big part of my life for a while and don't know what to do. :( Please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): First off, if you call his friends "whores" he won't like you. There are plenty of guys who like younger women. If you want a non-sexual relationship, just don't touch him or talk about that stuff. So you'll need to make interesting conversation with him. There are some good articles on conversation skills on wikihow, etc.
Something that you may enjoy, and that is related to this kind of relationship, is the fourth episode of "myself ; yourself"
And btw there is no "good enough" but some bad people make others feel inferior...so don't invest in that feeling.
Don't be one of those bad people either, though. People aren't "whores" unless they do it for money, and even then the more appropriate term is "prostitute", and even then you should avoiding talking about it.
Also, avoid making generalizations about groups of people, like "teenaged boys" ...it's offensive and imprecise.
I'm not telling that stuff out of anger, but because I want you to be a respectable person who can get real friends without testing their patience and generosity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): If a guy makes you feel like you arent good enough for him (intentionally or not) then he isnt worth a minute of your time. I was friends with the hot popular guy in high school, and now several years later I am with his best friend, only to discover that this popular guy was never really my friend and was simply waiting for a good time to try and hook up with me (meaning get a blowjob). If the guy has tons of sluts all over his page and he doesnt talk to the girls that arent models than he is making it very clear what he is interested in. Dont fool yourself. Find a real friend who will actually like and respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): It sounds like you want to be more than friends
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