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Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum?

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Question - (29 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ilton.fan writes:

Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum? I have a few guy friends that say they like it around but not in. I have another male friend that says to help my boyfriend out with the whole anal thing but I feel uncomfortable doing that, but I want to make him feel better during sex. What should I do???

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntMost guys would be way too wussy to say they enjoyed it because generally guys are too afraid they'll seem gay or something (completely untrue, that's just dumb socialization coming into play). But, a lot of guys actually DO like that kind of play because that's where the male G-Spot is located, the prostate gland. Like the female G-Spot, it feels amazing when it's stimulated.

Some guys are into it and some guys really, really aren't. So make sure you're using lots of communication and lubrication.

If YOU feel uncomfortable doing that kind of thing, then it's totally fine. There are lots of other ways to spice up your sex life than just playing around with his booty!

Good luck!

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

Everyone likes different things some guys like it some guys dont some guys wont try it because they associate anal pleasure with homosexuality. No matter what though no guy will like it if you dont enjoy doing it. It will make him up tight and make him only think about what you are think not what he is feeling. I personally do not like that area and wont go there you have to decide if it is something you can handle if not dont try. Good luck!

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