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writes: Do educated ,higher intelligence couples can resolve their conflicts better within a marriage,than a lower educated possibly financially more challenged? Do they divorce faster, and start new relationship,or there is no difference?Does money help to succeed on a higher level or nothing makes a difference?I was just wondering,as you always see, when the drunk, poverty stricken family yelling and screaming , and slams the door, and leaves the family behind.. But what about the fancy professionals, do they have more chance to face properly with the challenge of marriage? What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): All depends what you are fighting for?
What the challenge is?
Is it how to feed the children when a spouse drinks the money?
Is it how to pay the rent when eviction looms and your in debt?
Is it lack of love?
Challenges are DIFFERENT to every marriage as are INDIVIDUALS.
Your question is ambiguous.
Personally in answer to your question i would say it is entirely the individuals, not whether they are wealthy or
poor, educated or uneducated.
Regards your statement about the 'poverty family yelling and screaming etc'
You need a little education right now..that you do not always SEE this OFTEN,The highly educated wealthy family have a drunk who slams doors aswell. Try not to separate through class...An ALCOHOLIC DOES NOT JUST BELONG IN POVERTY,and often is very well educated and highly intelligent. Fancy professionals may HIDE their problems better in marriage...because they can clothe their children and can pay the rent and not have bailiffs at the door for all to see,have breaks away to rest...some can not hide their hardships.
Strength from within ! is what can help face and sort marriage problems, even your ambiguous question makes me think you are hiding some thing,are you afraid to say you live with a drunk...after all only unintelligent families end up like this, as you believe? you need education of a useful kind ! no certificates and letters after your name makes your family any different when it comes to LIVING WITH A SECRET ALCHO!!!!
hOPE I HAVE NOT OFFENDED YOU, AS YOU MAY SIMPLY BE RESEARCHING.
VIA CON DIOS.
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reader, Austinalive  +, writes (9 January 2009):
Hi.
Education implies more than learning theories, it helps to develop a complete human being, capable of reasonable thinking and good listening. Anyway the final difference is the control over reactions. A well educated couple could react violently under some circumstances, and i've seen poor non-educated people having excellent political postures.
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