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writes: my girlfriend and I met on 28th March and spent most nights together until 11th April - she then returned to her hometown - I met her on the 15th - she said she was menstuating though on the 16th/17th we made love - I can't quite remember but I think its possible that I did see the remenants of blood afterwards but I can't be certain. Anyway, we then found out that around this time she conceived our baby girl due in Jan.What I'd like to know is, although she might/might not have bled, she could have already been pregnant right? I've heard of girls bleeding during pregnancy which is not necessarily MENS...She could have easily been with someone over those few days right and this could be the rightful father right?how accurate is the equipment when doing scans on baby and due date cos using the docs calc of last day of MENS in this case 20th April it ties in just nice with the date the scan produced based on baby size etc but if this scan is not accurate is it possible the baby could have been from prior MENS (if indeed it was MENS at all) and/or is it even possible that she conceived a baby befoe I met her, perhaps 3 weeks prior to MENS, meaning before I even met her as she was extremely sexually active the week I met her (she says she had dif guy each day for 4 days).Lastly we have had our ups and downs but today we are getting on greatly - I really don't want to upset the apple cart again but talking to her about this - what do you think?Was thinking just to hang in there unti the baby is born and then musta the currage to ask her to agree to a DNA test - very sensitive though - very tricky...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): Even if a woman is on her period, she can still get pregnant
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