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writes:So I've been with one man for 5 years and he always told me Im lose , stink and nobody will want me for my sex . Well I start seeing a new man and we had sex , and he told me "your so wet" is this a bad thing? When he said that i asked for a towel he said NO! It feels so good to feel you cum . Is that true ? Does it feel good for a man ? He also slipped out twice but He seemed to enjoy it but my mind runs to a million little things. Like do i really stink? Would he tell me if i do ? Am i loose since he slipped out ? Is it bad that i get so wet and have so many orgams?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both so much , i appreciate it ((:
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 November 2015):
 First of all.. ACCEPT that your ex was a total twat-waffle and nothing he said is the truth. OK?!
Being "wet" is not a bad thing, it means arousal - which means YOU are sexually around BY your partner. So no, that is NOT a bad thing.
As for your ex calling you lose... Not every vagina is the same size, neither are ALL penis the same size - so him calling you lose just show have ignorant he was. He probably had a smaller than average penis, and you MIGHT have a wider than average vagina. And that is that. Nothing HE or YOU can change about that.
As for odor. I can't tell you if you stink, I doubt you do though. Most people have the notion that "private parts" smell JUST like your forearm after you put on lotion, but that isn't realistic, is it? Just like your feet doesn't smell like your forearm if you go without sock in sneakers for 8 hours..... the human body have a VARIETY of odors. Most of them can help us determine if there is something off. Be that an infection or ph imbalance or even a sugar imbalance.
If you have a lot of discharge and it smells like ammonia (litterbox) you could be having a vaginal bacterial infection - which can be cleared up with meds and a change in hygiene. If it smells more like mushrooms/dirt, it can be a fungal/yeast infection - again something that can get cleared up fairly fast with meds.
But again, your ex might just have said that out of MORE ignorance and because he knew it would hurt your feelings.
Here are some tips and info on how to keep the "neither regions" happy and healthy:
http://www.everydayhealth.com/womens-health-pictures/hygiene-rules-for-a-healthy-vagina.aspx
As for your new partner "slipping" out... It can also come down to the position you two used. So feel free to experiment with your new found partner what works best for YOU two. As for having many orgasms... whatever would be wrong in that? ENJOY them! And forget about the ex...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2015): I think it sounds like your new lover is turned on by what your body does and he isn't selfish in ensuring you are pleased in sex. Sounds perfect. Slipping out happens to most, not something to worry over.
Remember you are a young woman - you met ex when he was a boy so he is bound to be immature and frankly stupid. Takes the lads a little longer to catch up mentally. I would brush off his comments as quite clearly your new lover disagrees with your old lover.
This suggests that it was never YOU that was the problem
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