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writes: ok i used to date this guy who was two years older than me and it was really hard bcuz a ton of chics likd him.but this was the first guy that asked me out cuz he likd me for me and not bcuz he thought i was hott or easy or somethin lik that. but i dont no i guess i got scared. scared of being in a real relationship that doesnt revovle around sex or consantly making out or things lik that.then all these rumors started about him and girls started to hate me cuz they likd him. and there was this one day i was gone and when i got bac i had 13 messages on my answering machine from him. so he was pretty much perfect but i dumped him. and now i want him bac but im afrain waited to long to go bac now. and im not sure but i think he myt have a girlfrnd.what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): i'd say he sounds a little bit like a stalker if he left you 13 messages. one or two wouldn't do the trick? anyway, just talk to him.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (3 August 2006):
 I would agree with RJ, and ask him if he has a girlfriend..He obviously thought a lot of you, and it will do no harm to just ask. However, if he does have someone else, then you will have to respect that, take a back seat for now and see how it goes. If it does'nt work out with the new girl, then the path is clear and you can take it from there - assuming you have not moved on by then! His reaction will also give you a valuable insight into the guys' morals and values and whether he would be the cheating type, him liking and fancying you, knowing he has a girl and if he would take it any further and cheat on her - if he would, then chances are he would have cheated on you! I do know it is not an issue for you, but that kind of info is priceless, and if he would not cheat, then he is well and truly your perfect guy!! So either way, you have nothing to lose and much to gain by asking him - go for it, or you will always be thinking "what if"?...Please keep in touch if you wish, send me a private mail and let me know how you get on! Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): I suggest that you be brave and tell him just how you feel. You never know what could happen. He might have been waiting for this to happen and just didn't want to approach you. Or, in the worst-case scenerio, he has moved on and found someone new. Either way, you owe it to yourself to find out. It's better than sitting around and wondering about it. You shouldn't worry about other people's jealousy. They're just being petty. What matters is that you are happy, and if you were happy with this guy, then by all means, let him know that. I hope everything works out okay for you in the end. I wish you the best of luck! Be brave!
~RJGirl
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