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Did she cheat or is he trying to break us up?

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Question - (27 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2008)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my gf told me a guy tried to sleep with her but she refused she gave me his number i called him after his number was switched off for 3 days wen i got hold of him i threatened him he later called me 2 days later and told me she was cheating on me with him that shes a hoe and we were not the only guys he even sent me 3 texts she sent to him one of them said she gave him a bj but his friends were laughing in the back saying fuck him up while he was telling me this he was calling and telling her he loves her i confronted her she started crying and begging for betraying my trust but denied having anything with him but admitted liking him and only sent 1 of 3 texts i asked begged yelled and tryed to break up but she still denied having anything with him please can anyone explain whats going on did she cheat or is he trying to break us up?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

i had the samething happen to me with my girl. i broke down to her and said its either me or him? well of course she choose me but that never takes away what she did. when i confronted him about it, all he said was how good she was and he did the same thing. confessed his love for her behind my back. so i know it sounds wrong i gave her the altimatum. me or him. im still with her so now i cheack her phone. i even cheack her email. and now that he isnt in the picture anymore and he moved away and he doesnt have her new number.... we have been at an ok state. the only problem is... you never look at that person the same after that and no matter who they talk to your worried if " thats the next guy" he tried to break us up so i bet thats the same thing your guy is doing. take it easy at first dont get to strict. tell her its you or him. if she chooses you change everything around. dont just let it slide by. even tho you probably dnt have that much trust in her anymore. trust that she learned her lesson. just keep a close eye on her. thats what i am doing.

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