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Did my old high school friend just date me to show off my great boobs?

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Question - (25 October 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2005)
A female , *hristine writes:

I think I know the reason why my high school friend went out with me. I have lost a lot of weight and my friends don't know that I had gained weight in the past. Now I am in very good shape but well let's just say I can easily get a job at Hooters.

Well I think some of the people at my reunion wanted to find out if the girls where real or not. I am mad at my friend for doing this so I think that is the reason and he hasn't E- mailed me since then but on the other hand I am a little vain about my chest, especially when I know that most of my friends from the reunion are heavy set.

What should I say to my friend? We are or were friends since we were 1 yr old. I guess the reason why I agreed to go out with him was that he is still very sexy looking and I can still picture him in his football uniform. I really don't want us to stop being friends. Should I ask him if that was the only reason why? Do you think that is the only reason why he went out with me?

Keep in mind I was in the in crowd back in school. He was too, but I would never go out with him back then. Just for the fact we were good friends.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2005):

Gosh, it sounds like you are back in high school again, hun. The immature behaviours of you and your old classmates leads me to say-it's time to grow up, kiddies. Who the heck cares if your boobs are real or not. And NO...you don't need to ask him if this was the only reason he dated you? If you feel he dated you for this reason, then you should give yourself more credit for offering more than beautiful breasts...intellect, wit, brains work wonders. If he didn't see this...then it's his loss and he's an ass. So don't worry about him or what your former classmates think. Just get on with life, find good, quality, trusting people and forget about the possible pettiness of these people. Be a good person yourself and you will attract nice people to you, that will treat you with respect. Forget this guy and get out there and have fun!

Hugs, Irish

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