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36-40,
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writes:Hey so I recently reconnected with an ex boyfriend who I let go about two years ago because I was afraid to fall in love with him. Well we hung out recently and things went great and he text me a few times after saying how much fun he had and then said we should do it again. Well I then replied when are you free and never responded. Well my thoughts went crazy so I wrote him this message to him:I would rather say this in person but when I look at you all my thoughts jump out the window. I am never one to get nervous but you make me feel that way, so here goes. I know you may have reservations about me coming back into your life and heck yea you should. Here I am two years later complimenting you on your beautiful eyes and amazing smile. I never thought I would have the opportunity to speak to you again. I only thought as far as if I ever had one last chance to see you, I wouldn’t hold back on my feelings. I don’t have any expectations, I never do. For two years you have been this faded dream in my mind and it’s still very much surreal. I know you just came out of a relationship and you are “jaded” so to speak, but being jaded is easy, it’s being an optimist is what’s hard and takes guts. You’re sublime, you deserve happiness but it’ll find you minus the timeline. There’s more but I don’t want to write you a novel. K t2ul (cheez) AND THEN HE SAID:you may think this is crazy but Im just now (Sunday 5am) getting home from the night I left you in NY. thats why ive been MIA. Not intentionally distancing myself or anything. Was kidnapped by my cousins for the whole weekend/ I will read your messages in detail and reply soon.Well i feel like my message scared him away cause he hasn't replied in two days DID IT ???.. i'm going crazy please help !!!!!!!
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reader, busy04 +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Give him some more time to respond, he obviously wants to really give your message some serious thought, so RELAX, have a glass of milk and just be patient. Let him respond when he responds:)
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reader, beachbabe  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 dont worry. guys are slow, and is thinking what say in his reply. he is flattered of what you had to said.
2 days isnt long.
jus relax and dont stress about it. and btw dont tell him everything you feel about him. that will scary him away. Take time and work your way in to his life again..
good luck,
xo
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