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36-40,
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writes:im in a relation with a girl since a year. and cos im dark, shes not so much into me. im a singer by profession, im 6'2" tall, great physique, but im little dark. i guess for that reason shes not able to adjust with me.she works at a place, a guy there flirted with her, n she neva told me about him, after like 10-12 days, ds guy proposed my gf but she ignored his proposal. dn he asked my gf to hang out with him, n my gf went with him alone. dey spent whole day together, talking, having lunch. i called her up n she lied where she was, den later i somehow was able to convince her to tell me the truth, n after a long time she told me everything in pieces, i had to force her to tell me.den one day i came to know that she had cleaned up her hair down there, someday before meeting dat guy. she told me dat she had trimmed her hair down there after her periods, which she usually doesnt do. wen i asked her why she did it, she lied again and made some story. she told me that we were about to go to our apartment to get intimate, n she did it for me, but im so sure that we had no plans to get intimate at that time, n we had no plans to go to the apartment as well at that time. she said dat she had gone just to meet him, n she cannot do ds with any guy other than me. it was me for whom she had cut those hair n she cant remember what really hapnd which made her to cut. i told her dat if this is true then you shouldn't have lied to me dat we were about to go to the apartment n all. now i think that she had cut those hair to meet dat guy. and i guess she was ready to get physical with that guy. but this is my assumption. i want you people to clear my doubts n tell me what would have had really happened. ds may be funny to some of you, but our culture is so dat all ds s not allowed. my life is in trouble because of these negative thoughts in my head.what should i really do people.?? please halp me out. i need you people's advice.
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reader, MarnieW  +, writes (18 May 2011):
Not sure what your culture is but If someone causes you to doubt them so much it's not worth it. Get out and find someone else u can trust.
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