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writes:My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. He started sniffling like he was going to cry and didn't 'finish'. (He instigated the sex). I didn't push him or anything.Has anyone ever had it happen to them or know why? I don't want to humiliate him if it's because of some unknown trauma or something. Reply to this Question
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reader, soon567 +, writes (3 September 2011):
Nothing wrong with him. It how you feel about that person. Its obviously he feels deeply for you. It happen to me twice with the girl i wanted to marry and my ex-wife.If he does it again just tell him to stop it.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 I'm not so sure it's a problem. I've occasionally cried during sex when overwhelmed with emotion. See how it goes the next time: if it keeps happening then you know there's an issue. It may have just been a one-off (or rare) occurrence.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 Something is definately going on here. He is dealing with some serious unresolved issues. If you can I would ask him what is going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): It was his first time, and contrary to popular belief, that is as big event for the guy as it is for the woman.Like most, he was just nervous and afraid... it'll pass. Few people's first times are ever satisfactory, because that skill and passion and knowing how to express it is just something you learn over time.Don't hold it against him too much, and don't say anything bad about it. You can critique and teach him later as he becomes more confident, telling him he needs to learn more, now, right after he first lies with a girl will only scar him emotionally. And our manly egos are far more fragile than you'd think.Flynn 24
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