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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:From what I gather a girl who is someone I know and who is friends with one of my friends told him I like/have a crush on him. I never told her that but since me and this guy were fairly close and people know how I admire him or talk to him I guess she assumed/jumped to conclusions. He seemed to be upset and uncomfortable so I decided to send him a text saying how I never said I have a crush on anyone and that I sincerely really like and care for him and respect him as a person (not just as a team mate-we both are part of and play together which is how we met). I said I have talked with him about lots of things in the past and so if he wants to know something he can ask and talk to me about it.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (23 April 2024):
 Sounds like the "friend of a friend" was thinking she was "helping" you two get together by telling him you had a crush on him.
I have to ask, how old is she? 12?
Maybe tell her to stay out of your business? Tell her to stop ruining your friendships?
Some people think they are great at match making (Think Jane Austen's Emma) and some really need to just stay out of people's business and get a life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2024): I think you've been absolutely straight with him and the only mixed messages are between what someone else said and what you said. Surely he knows you well enough by now. Maybe he has a crush on you! I'd love to know what he replied!
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