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Did I scare him off? Read him wrong? What do I do?

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Question - (8 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2012)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok there is this guy I think he's shy but how do I really know?? Ok we are roommates and I always could feel a connection when he was around he would make eye contact the body language made me think he was interested. So after a while of all that I took it as he probly liked me . We don't really talk but one day I told him I liked him and now he still looks at me and smiles a little but why hasn't he said anything about it?? Did I scare him off?? Or maybe I read him wrong what should I do??

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (10 May 2012):

You guys are roommates but don't really talk? Interesting.

I'd start asking him some personal questions so he knows you're interested in him.

Does he have any hobbies he might want to talk about?

Since you already told him you like him, you could just ask him if he likes you too.

If you like shy guys then tell him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2012):

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Haha well I think I am a very attractive person. Idk maybe I did make him feel wierd but i felt I rather say something and see where it went from there no rush haha I'll let him think about it. And thank yu I get it I know he's shy cuz when I talk to him he blushes hah and when I walk in the room he looks at me then acts like he's doing something.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012):

if you are really hot looking then he is really shy.If you are not hot looking then he is just being nice not to hurt your feelings.No guy could resist a hot roommate for long nature takes over.

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A female reader, Deagan United States +, writes (8 May 2012):

Deagan agony auntI think he isn't saying nor doing anything about it because you two are roommates. He's probably being very practical. Besides, the smile he gave me might not necessarily mean he likes you back, but rather it means he is flattered. You should take the fact that you two are room mates and that he hasn't done anything about you liking him as a sign that you should forget the idea of you two being together, quite honestly. Look busy and don't look interested. You might want to consider finding a new roommate if it makes you awkward to room with him now.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012):

maybe he likes you back and is shy about it ;)

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