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Did I scare him off? is there a point in even hanging around him if he doesn't want a relationship?

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Question - (4 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok this is a strange question and any answers i recieve i,ll be very grateful

Last week I met a really nice guy he is a brother of a friend and he is just so amazing, sweet and funny.All through the week we,d been texting and getting to know each other like I told him I was a very random and

hyper person. Last night we met for the second time ever and it was just me and him spinning around in his car. He was so sweet that he took me to the beach and to the piers ( my fav places and it was really romantic as it was night time ). When we were talking he said to me he didnt think he could love anyone for a while. I understood that and I didnt mind as I was just getting to know him.

But after while we were sitting in the car we were talking and I got a little giddy and hyper and I think i might have scared him off. He hasn't texted me since and my friend think he just used me but All we did was kiss. So have i been used and have i scared him off and is there a point in hanging around him if he doesnt want a relationship?

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A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (5 August 2011):

Daniel the love doctor agony auntI don't think he used you if all you did was kiss. Maybe he didn't have the same connection to you as you had for him.

But communication is key. Find out from him what he thinks about you- and if he would be interested in talking to you further. If you don't get a reply, then move on. Find someone that's going to appreciate you even if you're very giddy and hyper :^)

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