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30-35,
*obinrose_2005
writes:ok so there is this guy that i have worked with for about 3 months. we flirt when we work with eachother well at least im pretty sure we do. he is single and 25 years old and i am 18. so i recently called him up and asked him if he would like to see a movie with me this saturday. he sounded really excited, and he said "yes but saturday doesnt work for me, so how about sunday"? i said "i cant because i have to work all that day. so he said "well we can figure something out". he siad he had to go he was busy at the moment. so i called back in like 5 mins saying well here is my number just incase if we dont see eachother at work before then. he said ok sounds good i will give you a call. well because he works 3rd shift and i work 1st or 2nd. so that coming monday we worked with each other, he ever mentioned anything bout going to the movies with me. we both still acted the same as we do on a regular basis at work. it has been almost a week and he still hasnt called me. did i blow it by asking him out to soon? what did i do wrong? im pretty sure that he is interested in me all of the signs say he is. is he ever gonna call me? i dont really know to much about him yet but i would really like to get know him better and i thought by asking him out that would help. im so confused. any one have any opinions on this if so please let me know!!!
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reader, robinrose_2005 +, writes (6 August 2010):
robinrose_2005 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyour not the only one to tell me that i should just ask again about the movies. i am kinda to scared to do it again tho. but i guess if i get rejected, or anything else life still goes on. right. thanks
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reader, TimmD +, writes (5 August 2010):
 25 and 18 is a fairly good size gap in age. He may be hesitating because of that. If you want, you can put one more hint out there by saying something like "I'm still up for dinner and a movie if you are..." and leave it at that. Otherwise, he clearly knows you are interested in him and the rest is up to him.
But again, just to warn you.... good guys are a little weary about that type of age gap. When I was 25 if I got asked out by an 18 year old girl the first thing I would have thought to myself was "Oh crap, her parents are going to love this!" (in a sarcastic way of course)
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