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writes:So me and this guy dated for 2 months. Then he broke up with me because we were never really allowed to see each other bc of my parents. Then after about a month he asked me out again and I said yes. But things just felt kinds different and I don't know if it was normal or not bc yes I'm young and unexpierianced. But like he never texted me as much or said cute things and whenever we did talk, it was usually about sex which he knows I was still apprehensive about. So it just got annoying. Plus in school we never talked to eachother and he like if he missed school or could hang out at lunch he never told me. It felt like there was no communication but he asked me back out so I figuered that must mean something. But in the end I broke up with him after a week bc it was definitely feeling like we were just '$@ and ! Buddies' if you know what I mean. And though I really really didn't want to I don't want a relationship like that but I still feel like I miss him and I need help about whether or not I made the right choice. I also can't figure out I'd misses me at all. I catch him looking at me in the halls but when I said we should go our separate ways, his only response was 'alright if that's what you want' before hand I made it clear I wasn't that happy in our relationship and my theory is if he really cared, why didn't he try harder and try to fix it?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (4 April 2009):
 The issue with your parents interfering here (no matter what their choices or reasons are) could be on his mind. If you both are acting outside one or both parent's preferences, then this would be cause enough to not associate.
But, the really bottom line here is that if you felt like the relationship wasn't giving you what you wanted out of it, then breaking up was the right thing to do. Don't worry too much about how he's feeling in all this -- your feelings are more important. As you said, going your separate ways was the right choice.
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