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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend last night because my close friend told me that she asked him if its true that we got back together and he said "No we are not together". He's denying our relationship. It was very very painful to hear this. I called him and I confronted him about it and of course he denied it. He told me that he never said those things to her and that he will never do that to me. I'm heartbroken because I know he's lying. My friend will never just make something up like that. And the funny thing about this is that I HAD a gut instinct telling me that if someone asked him if we're together he will deny it. And my gut feeling was right the whole time. I really wanna believe him. I love him so much I wanted to end up with him, but I know my friend wouldn't just make something up like that. He told me he will call me tonight to talk about things and that everything my friend said is not true and that there was a misunderstanding. I think he's full of it. Your opinion?? Did I make the right choice by dumnping him for that??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): I'd real;ly like to know how old you are...and how serious of a relationship this was... if you're 13 then this is no big deal- 36 and yeah, dump the guy...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): No one could possibly know the answer to that but you. If you think it is time to move on then do so. I don't think relationships started this young are meant to last forever and I think it is very limiting to commit yourself to just one. Now is the time of your life where you should be meeting and dating lots of different kinds of people, expanding your horizons and learning what you like and dislike in relationships. Learning about what makes you happy and what qualities you like in a person you are intimate with.
Focus now should be on school and career goals. Men die and men leave, we as women have to build our own lives and interests and develop our own skills so that we have options in the world for supporting ourselves.
I wish you peace.
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